The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
It's the times we share, the good and the not so good that lead to a deeper understanding and the adding of memorable shared experiences that add to the bond.
Real affection, compassion, fun, acknowledgement, edification, sincere affection and compassionate support are among the most important things that make a good relationship great. In practising being better at each of these makes us better at understanding others. Which in turn opens us to receiving these and understanding who we are and what we bring to the relationship.
Whatever your relationship value it for what it is, a place to learn and grow both in what we receive and what we are then able to give.
Thus ours and others lives can be constantly enriched.
No comments:
Post a Comment