Its
that time of the year when the wind blows
from the inland bringing with it a promise
of hot weather. On a run back from the airport this afternoon I was
struck by the things the wind reminded me of. Certainly a wind of
change, promising a release from the mild days that have preceded it.
The
memory of bright red flowers that grew along a couple of verandas
and outside a well remembered bed room in my childhood. In this case
a reflection, a re-run of a lot of times both good and not so good
came to mind. Certainly the idyllic times spent in quiet conversation
with those whose voices are now talking on the wind. In traditional
culture folklore the ancestors spoke on the wind, in the rain and
from the night sky. Today standing at the airport looking out across
the open expanse that surrounds the runways there was a feeling of
being called by the voices in the wind.
In
that quiet space I could have been any one of a dozen different
places at any one of a dozen different times. Not all of which would
have been in the past. Some of the earliest would have been when the
south easterly wind blows in from the southern ocean in Albany or
Esperance. Strangely enough the feeling was the same out in the
Pacific around Fiji.
Another
of sitting on the veranda of Grandfathers room at the farm in conversation about many different things. It always seemed as though
there was no need to rush, just be a part of what was being said or
done at the time.
Perhaps
another time of significance was outside Church
on any
one of the many Sundays that finished up in discussions by those who
only had their work, their town and their faith in common. A lot of
wisdom was also imparted over cups of tea served on the back of a
truck or the tailgate of a ute, or even a super bag spread out on the
ground.
A
lot of the voices can still be heard as if they are talking now.
The
particular voice qualities, funny ways of pronouncing some words, the
stories of organ grinders and monkeys who would pick your pocket that
Great Grandma White told us, all seem to somehow be linked to that
wind at this time of year.
Is
it a vivid imagination or maybe a desire for a quieter way of life
that allows them to be heard. Its not really important. What is
important is the value placed on the experience. Today was as
relaxing as a holiday on the coast, something different to think
about, to reflect on. How much the voices and their influence have
shaped decisions made along the way to the here and now.
In
the same way as the old cultures trust the guidance of the medicine
man to tell them the meanings of the voices words, it's possible to
place value on others experiences and save ourselves the trouble of
having to repeat the same mistakes they made.
Therein
lays a problem though, because nature seems to have endowed we humans
with a desire to try the ice cream ourselves rather than trusting
someone elses opinion of it.
Even
so all people have something of value to add to the fabric of our
family and society. From the infant struggling to form sounds and be
understood, to those who have a wealth of wisdom if given the chance
to share it.
Someone
said once that we have two ears and one mouth and should use them in
that proportion. After the battle of Gettysburg, in the American
civil war, a general stood up and addressed the troops for quite a
long time. Abraham Lincoln on the other hand spoke fifty six words
and summed all that needed to be said. The funny thing is that Lincolns' address is the one that is remembered today.
Often
now I hear things being said, little phrases or a particular way of
saying a word and realise I've heard it before, spoken by
someone else. Even more uncanny is that often it was spoken by
someone who passed on before the present speaker was born. As Sir
Laurence Olivier
said in his last stage performance “choose your words with care’‘
(a replay of his part in the production 'Time').
Having
made one career out of choosing my words with care it is pleasant to
now reflect on the carefully chosen words of the care givers, the
nurturers, those we've known and loved, respected and admired.
Taking
time today to listen to the words of those many voices has served as
a reminder that tomorrow they may be useful in some part of what I do
in working with others. How in some simple way the gift given through
that communication may be passed on to serve as a reminder of the
wisdom we may not see now.
It’s
not just the great writers and speakers who have gifts to pass on. It
may be someone who spoke their truth so quietly that we didn’t hear
it, but will remember when they speak on the wind.
© 8
January 1998
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